Don't ask me where I came up with the title, but it just came to me, even though there aren't any particularly beautiful pics
For Valentine's day we had an indoor picnic at a friend's house, all of us wearing some sort of pink or red. We also web-cammed with my mom so she could see them eating the candy she sent in the mail. At 9 am. Definitely a special day. The babies wanted more, of course. Daddy brought home "Mommy flowers" and made a delicious dinner, which included some mushrooms and onions. Tucker sat on Daddy's lap and ate all of those onions, amazingly. He also ate the meat. But even I love that meat. He made filet mignon. Who doesn't love that???!! I personally loved the gnocchis. Mostly because I think it is a special touch to me. Every place that we have gone to that have gnocchis on the menu, I order that. I love gnocchis. Good mission memories.
Some funny Tucky stories. On Monday we had corn for lunch. All of a sudden Tucker was announcing "oh no!" several times. I couldn't figure out what "oh no!" was until he started saying nose. I looked in his nose and he stuffed a corn kernel up there. Lucky for me I figured out a way to get that sucker out. Pebbles next, right?
Another story is that we were walking in the park and all of sudden Tucker started saying "oh no!", but with a very distressed voice. I was looking around, but then he stopped walking and looked down. After that I started laughing hysterically and couldn't stop for awhile. Tucker's pants had fallen down below his knees and his cute little thighs and knees were exposed to the air below his raincoat. I don't know why I thought it was so funny, but the babies were not amused. Neither one of them cracked a smile. I don't think they could figure out what was so funny. Tucker did a courtesy laugh and I finally got it under control after that, only because maybe he was embarrassed, even if he has cute thighs and he had a onsie on over a diaper.
Whitney has figured out how to take off seals off of products. We were in Costco and I got some shampoo (my five year supply with the size they are, right?). A lady walked by and she smelled so good!!! Like she just stepped out of the shower. Then Whitney said "oh no!" (now you know the dreaded words in this family) and I looked down to see she had started squirting shampoo out. Well, at least I know it is a smell I like.
Tucker is really learning how to keep a balloon up in the air by hitting it. He's really getting it down where the balloon is going to go. They are both really into letters, Tucker more than Whitney. Everywhere we go, he points out different letters on signs and such. But he rarely gets them wrong, which is what is amazing to me. Whitney messes up on occasion, but it surprises me that it's more than Tucker. However, she is working on her pretend play and games.
She is usually the one that invents and initiates games. The ring leader. They have a book that has cut outs and she instructed Tucker to poke his finger through so she can go "tickle, tickle" to his finger. She also is setting her babies up at the table to eat the food she cooks in the kitchen. Tucker makes the babies cry and she feeds them. This week they also figured out how to work as a team to play Tucker's favorite game. Tucker can't quite turn the water on in the kitchen sink approaching it from the front. So Whitney pushed a stool around behind the sink and turned it off and on as he needed it to fill up his side-kick measuring cups. Yep. The ring leader. They also play "snuggle" which involved wedging themselves between the couch and the mattresses on the floor so one can jump off the couch over the other and land on the mattresses. A very safe, fun game. They also play take care of the baby. Tucker makes it cry and Whitney feeds it.
On Saturday we tried to get to the coast. We ended up just driving 6.5 hours. Lots of practice to get to Grandma's. For when they are older. We brought a friend and his wife called because she had to take her mom to the ER. We were just about to get to the beach to go razor clamming when the call came, so we had to turn around so he could take care of the 5 kids while she was with her mom. Crazy day. We would have been fine if there hadn't been an accident blocking the road to the beach...... Anyway it was a very frustrating long day in the car. We stopped to go to the bathroom and the only open one for Whitney to run into was a hugely clogged toilet. Never seen anything like it in nastiness, but I thought she couldn't hold it. Well, one look at that, and she could hold it. And hold it she did for another hour. She chuckled, smiled and ran into the clean bathroom when we finally got to one. I don't know if she is going to be roughing it type when she grows up. We'll see. She wasn't about to rough it then.
We ended up staying a bit to play at the friend's house to get out of the car. They have a 2 week old baby (hence the reason the grandma was there visiting) that Tucker and Whitney were amazingly soft to. These past two weeks we have been really working on saying sorry and being soft. I'm tired of the pointless time outs that they both seem to love and not care about. They still beat each other up and push and shove, but now, they are soft right after and seem surprised at times that they had hurt the other person. About a month ago we had a year old baby over that was teething and I had to work to keep Tucker from mauling them. So with this newborn, I was really watching Tucker. The newborn slept most of the time, but did wake up hungry and crying. They were both concerned for the baby, tried rubbing his head to comfort him and kept saying that the baby needed milk ("baby milk!"). When the bottle was ready, they both took turns holding it for him. So I guess kids are like dogs. They seem to know that the smaller, more delicate things need more leniency and to not get after them so soon. I'm just glad to see that they seem to be learning that the other person has feelings, too. I had to put a band-aid on Tucky's finger to protect a cut, and she gave the boo-boo a kiss! So cute! I bet you miss them! Enjoy the video of Whitney feeding Tucker rice and beans, something he doesn't like.